Before coming to Bologna, I was definitely not confident in my Italian speaking skills. I briefly talked to my advisor about possibly doing a homestay and even when I wanted to back out, since most of my friends were going to live in apartments, I ultimately decided not to. I am so so happy I stood by my choice to live with an Italian family. I would recommend this experience to anyone coming to Bologna.

At first, I felt a little bit of FOMO (fear of missing out) because all of my friends in apartments were realizing their independence in Italy which resulted in me missing out on a couple of events while I was still trying to get to know my family. This, however, did not last long at all.

What you need to understand is that any of the families you end up with, know that you’re here to study, but you’re also here to explore and have some fun. My host family is only made up of my host mom and host dad; therefore, I have a lot of independence because I am their only “child”. They actually call me their “figlia americana.” They have three older kids, all of which have moved out already, which leaves me being spoiled with Sunday pizza dinners (with all of their kids) and nice surprises such as gelato and whatnot.

My home is about a 15-minute bus ride from the center of the city (40-minute walk). As such, you’re left to explore a lot on your own, but it gives you a greater sense of direction and appreciation for the whole city.

Although I take no classes with the lower-level Italian students, I have had such a great support system from all of the members of the newly created Italian Studies Program. These people have become some of my best friends and there have been times when I have slept over at the Italian apartments before trips or if I’m staying out late or have a big exam the next day. This is something I never expected, but I am so happy that this new program is now in place.

My experience living with a host family is unmatched and I wish that everyone would consider this experience because it has been the best part of my abroad experience. My Italian family has already noticed improvements in my communication and I have felt so welcomed in their home and with their entire family. Yes, it gives you a lot of independence, but it also takes a person who can balance being with friends and also making time to spend with their family. I have five dinners a week with my family but they’re so flexible with everything, even my travel plans.

At first, I thought I would only spend a semester with them, but after realizing how great they are and how much I have enjoyed my experience, I have decided to spend the year with them, which says a lot about my homestay experience. I already have a new family here in Italy and I know that even when I leave, I’ll be looking forward to the next time I can see them again.