When I read Watching the English at home, I thought Kate Fox was mostly being funny. Now that I\u2019ve spent a month here, I know she wasn\u2019t. But there is one amendment I think she needs to make to her book: her analysis of the English seems to be mostly restricted to the older generation. I suspected this while I was reading the book, but I couldn\u2019t be certain. It did seem strange to me, though, to imagine that young adults would be unwilling to tell people what they did for a living or to talk to people on the tube, for example. Even in America, it is rude for older generations to brag about how much money they make, but young people are allowed to compare notes about hourly wages and the like.<\/p>\n
\u00a0A few weeks ago, Jesse and I overhead a young couple strike up a conversation with a similarly-aged man on the tube. Simply starting to talk to the man goes against the rules of Fox\u2019s book. According to her, people just do not create conversation with strangers. Not only did the couple talk to the man, they wound up asking him what he does for a living. But some things Fox said still does apply to younger generations. The couple made sure to wait for the appropriate social cues before inquiring. The man mentioned his job and they reciprocated, asking him what he did.<\/p>\n
But that isn\u2019t to say that Kate Fox was wrong about everything. She helped me out of some right situations, making things less awkward for me. I would never have known, otherwise, that it is customary to buy your bartender a round instead of leaving a monetary tip, for example. And Kaitlin was astutely able to deduce that the neighborhood near Regent\u2019s Park was upper class partly because of the unkempt gardens full of scattered lawn ornaments.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve definitely enjoyed (and will keep enjoying) \u201cwatching the English\u201d to compare my observations with those intimated by Fox in her book.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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