“Lastly, she pictured to herself how this same little sister of hers would, in the after-time, be herself a grown woman; and how she would keep, through all her riper years, the simple and loving heart of her childhood; and how she would gather about her other little children, and make their eyes bright and eager with many a strange tale, perhaps even with the dream of Wonderland of long ago; and how she would feel with all their simple sorrows, and find pleasure in all their simple joys, remembering her own child-life, and the happy summer days” (Carroll, 104).
The last few paragraphs of Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland interestingly do not center Alice herself, but her presumably adult sister, who dreams of Wonderland as a concept and reminisces on Alice’s adventures. This is interesting for starters because how is she to know what Alice dreamed of, emphasizing the other-worldly almost magical nature of Wonderland. But even more interesting and relevant are her musings on Alice’s future as a consequence of her time in Wonderland. The closing sentence of the novel encompasses the sister’s expectations for womanhood, commenting on the childhood innocence that remains for girls as they grow.
The expectation that Alice “keep… the simple and loving heart of her childhood” implicate a mindset of feminine innocence for the Victorian woman. While Alice partakes in adventures throughout her dream and has a sense of independence that allows her to go through Wonderland by herself, having some level of personal influence and power, Carroll makes it very clear in this last sentence that her adventures are imagination. They are only meant to be dreams, and stories, and fairy tales, that as she becomes a woman, shouldn’t aspire to follow but rather pass on to her own children.
Furthermore, the idea that Alice as an adult woman should “find pleasure in all [her children’s] simple joys, remembering her own child-life, and the happy summer days” influences the expectation that women stay in the realm of childhood their whole lives. They are not only relegated to taking care of children, but they should be like these children, as they were children themselves. Therefore, a Victorian woman never really becomes a woman- she is meant to remain childlike all her life.