“Heart-weary and soul-withered, you come home after years of voluntary banishment; you make a new acquaintance—how or where no matter: you find in this stranger much of the good and bright qualities which you have sought for twenty years, and never before encountered; and they are all fresh, healthy, without soil and without taint […] you desire to recommence your life, and to spend what remains to you of days in a way more worthy of an immortal being. To attain this end, are you justified in overleaping an obstacle of custom—a mere conventional impediment, which neither your conscience sanctifies nor your judgement approves?” (219)
One thing that has really struck me in Jane Eyre is Brontë’s ability to depict sexual tension. Brontë captures a realistic attraction between Jane and Mr. Rochester, instead of presenting an idealized and distant portrayal of love (as in A Tale of Two Cities). In this passage, Mr. Rochester clearly is indirectly soliciting Jane to live as his mistress. Of course, Jane appears largely unconscious of his direct intentions in asking this question, but it demonstrates the deep level of attraction they both have for one another.
Although Jane does not initially see Mr. Rochester as handsome, her feelings for him develop as she begins to spend more time with him: “Every good, true, vigorous feeling I have, gathers impulsively around him” (179). The attraction she feels is not ethereal or romanticized; it is “impulsive” and breaks society’s class constructs. Moreover, her feelings develop in intensely intimate moments, such as when he takes her hand in his whilst they are both standing alone during the middle of the night, after Jane has doused him in water to save his life from a fire (156). Mr. Rochester tells her: “I knew, […] you would do me good in some way, at some time” (156). For Jane, this expressed sentiment causes her a great deal of inner turmoil and longing, since the next day she “wanted to hear his voice again, yet feared to meet his eye” (157). She knows that the interaction they had crossed lines of normal social respectability, but she also desires to have another one-on-one interaction.
Both Mr. Rochester and Jane recognize that there are barriers dividing them, and thus they must keep their desires separate. However, Mr. Rochester still finds ways to present to her both his attraction and his unspoken sexual dominance in their relationship. For example, in his indirect proposal above, he clearly has no reservations in expressing his feelings for Jane. He is a man with many flaws who is open with his sexuality and his desires in a frankness that Jane ultimately finds extremely appealing. Thus, he is not the image of the ideal man, but a realistic man with a great range of emotions and attractions. Perhaps, this realistic character is what has cemented him as a cultural romantic figure in literature throughout so many years.
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