Laura Fairlie’s wedding with Sir Percival Glyde seems to signify the end of the world for quite a few people. Marion takes it especially hard and acts as if once Laura marries Sir Percival, she will be dead. “She will be his Laura instead of mine!… [it is] as if writing of her marriage were like writing of her death” (185).This novel really seems to be Laura’s coming of age narrative because all her life, all she has known was Marion and her loyal promise to marry Sir Percival.
When she was exposed to Walter Hartwright and to what true love feels like, everything changed and she had to sacrifice her desires in order to keep her word. She is forced to leave her childhood innocence behind and leave her sister, whom she was inseparable with all her life in order to “grow up” and marry another man like she was meant to do according to familial expectations. Once Laura marries Sir Percival, her own sense of individual identity will cease to exist. She has to sacrifice true love, family, and possibly her inheritance (which she does not yet have access to) in order to marry a man who she promised her late father she would wed.
There is a theme her in which women were only meant to marry and once they did that, it’s like their life is over and they have accomplished all there is to accomplish at that point in their life, it’s portrayed as a rite of passage into adulthood and maturity for the ideal Victorian woman represented by Laura. She now has wifely duties that she is expected to fulfill after she is married not only in the sense of the domestic sphere and responsibility, but also there is a loss of her sexual innocence that comes with marriage. This loss of virginity is only hinted at when Marion discusses the loss of Laura’s innocence through the image of her “pretty little white bed” (194) she’s leaving behind after her wedding, only like a true Victorian novel does.
Marion really emphasizes this point when she states,”It is all over. They are married” (195) and mourns Laura’s death (oops… I meant marriage).